At the death of Vera Godwin 8/14/2023.
The Bummer Lamb.
Every once in a while, a lamb becomes an orphan for a variety of reasons, usually if its mother dies giving birth, or is killed by a predator.
Sometimes the Ewe rejects the lamb. If the lamb is returned to the ewe, the mother will kick the poor thing away.
If a ewe ever rejects a lamb, she will never change her mind.
These precious little lambs will hang their heads so low it looks like something is wrong with their neck. Their spirit is broken.
These lambs are called “bummer lambs”, And if the Shepherd does not intervene, that lamb will die rejected and alone.
SO, do you know what the shepherd will do?
He takes that little lamb into his home. He hand feeds it, and keeps it warm by the fire. He will wrap it up with blankets and hold it to his chest for its comfort, so the bummer can hear his heartbeat.
Once the lamb is strong enough, the shepherd releases the little lamb back into the field with the rest of the flock- with it’s little head held high.
As long as it lives, that little sheep never forgets how his shepherd cared for him. And when the shepherd calls for the flock, guess who runs to him first?
That’s right, that little bummer lamb. He knows his shepherd’s voice immediately.
It’s not that the bummer lamb is loved more than the others, it just knows the one who loves him on a deeper, more intimate level.
The lamb is no more loved than the others, it just believes it is because it has experienced the shepherd’s love one on one.
So many of us are bummer lambs, rejected and broken. But Jesus is the good shepherd. He cares for our every need and holds us close to his heart so we can hear his heartbeat.
We may be broken, but we are deeply loved by our shepherd. https://the-quietplacewithgod.com/inspiration/the-bummer-lamb/
At one point in my life, I was a bummer lamb. Vera Godwin was my shepherd, she was my mom, she had a heart for bummer lambs. And I was blessed to be one of her lambs.
Today, I just want a few minutes of your time to say thank you.
Bobby Brannen: (Brannen family funeral services, Glenville Ga).
Thank you for personally coming to pick up mom after she passed. You did not have to do that. You had employees to do that. But you put your shoes on at 1 am and came anyway. It was such a kind gesture, Thank you.
Meadows Park Nursing home: (Vidalia Ga). Thank you for loving mom. You loved her as your own mother. For 8 years she was in the finest care there is. Thank you, we love you.
Oak Grove Baptist and Lyons Freewill Baptist churches: Thank you for loving mom, and for being mine and her church family for so much of her life. She loved all of you dearly, and we do as well. Thank you, we love you.
Chris Spivey-What can I say? You loved mom, and helped her daily the last 8 years of her life. You were her lunch buddy, you called her mom, and she called you a son.
You were her bingo buddy, a companion, and someone to talk to and pass the time, especially in the evenings when the loneliness creeps in at the nursing home.
Thank you Chris. We love you. And you are family, just as mom wanted. We will not forget you. Look for us to be visiting you. We all thank you, and love you for loving mom.
Kenneth Godwin- You devoted the last 13 years of your life to your mother’s daily care and well being. Tommy and I helped when and where we could, and we worked together to make mom’s remaining years full of life, activity, compassion and love. I like to think we did a pretty good job. I love you brother.
The Bible says in Ephesians 6:2 and other places “”honor thy father and mother, which is the first commandment that comes with a promise”, and in Exodus 20:12 we find that promise: “Honor thy father and mother, so that thy days be long upon the earth. Mom cared for the elderly many times, selflessly, as you did. She lived to be 100.
Yours was a labor of love Ken. Folks like you are the salt of the earth. God is good to his children. You will get that time back.
Judy Coulter- You were the daughter mom didn’t get a chance to raise. I recall once she said of you “she is my grand daughters mother, if you don’t like it, you don’t have to come, but she is going to be there” (family reunion).
Mom made everyone get along, like it or not. She knew the importance and the power of relationships.
You loved her as a mother, and she loved you as her daughter. Thank you, I Love you.
Melody Robinson, Angie Pittman, Judy Coulter and the great grandchildren- collectively your visits kept mom’s days full of love and compassion. And the manicures, and the hair, and the dresses, and the jewelry, and pampering her demonstrated your love on a daily basis. She was always the best looking, best dressed lady on her floor, and that meant a lot to her. You always kept a smile on her face. Mom received more visitation than her entire floor combined. You all loved her, and she said many times that she knew it. She liked to say “I Love you, love you, love you”. That speaks to the power of love and devotion to family. Thank you, we love you.
Mom had a spirit about her: A spirit of peace, compassion, kindness, love and inclusion, and it came from her family. It was the love of Jesus. She had a good relationship with the Lord.
That same spirit was evident in her siblings that went before her. Mary, Everette, Emmerine and uncle William. They all possessed that same sweet, gentle and kind spirit that she did, the spirit of Christ and his commandments. “Love God, and thy neighbor as thyself” And today, that same spirit is evident in her children and grand children. Mom knew the importance and power of good relationships.
And as believers, our relationship with our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ is the most important relationship we have. This relationship affects every other relationship there is, and I am happy to say that there isn’t a single soul in mom’s family that doesn’t have a relationship with Jesus.. What a blessing it is to grow up in such a family!
To the youngers: I want you to take this home with you today:
Remember: Life is about good relationships, and friends are better than money. And as Todd Chrisley often says “don’t value your differences more than you do your relationships” , and as I often say “most things in life are not worth being right about”.
To the grand children and great grand children: I hope that we elders have set a good example for you, not by words, but in deed and truth.
Remember this: the way that you treat your elders is how YOUR children are going to treat YOU down the road.
The Bible says in Hebrews 10:24 “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works”.
We elders challenge you to continue in your grandmother’s spirit of peace, kindness, love and unity.
We elders charge you children here to continue in your parents, grand parents and great grandparents spirit of love, peace and kindness. We charge you to continue in the example that Jesus, your grandmother, and elders have set for you.
Jesus tells us in John 11:25 “I am the resurrection and the life, he that believes in me shall yet live, though he die.
In another place, the Bible tells us as we believe, so should we also walk.
Jesus gives us a future. He gives us eternal life simply by believing in him.
Mom loved Jesus. At this moment, She is with him in soul and spirit. Yes, God loaned us an angel for 100 years.
Now her mission is complete, and she is back home, with her Saviour, she is happy, and she is reunited and rejoicing with family and loved ones who went before her, and we will be with her again one day too.
But until that time, if the Lord tarries his appearing, again, we must continue in love, peace and kindness, and continue in the example that she set for us.
She would want that. She would expect that. She would demand it of us.
Let us continue to honor her and our Lord Jesus.
It’s funny how life changes one’s perspectives on things. Looking back:
In mom’s last days, I was overcome with gratitude.
I have had two good mothers in my life, many folks don’t have one.
I have had two good fathers in my life, many never have one. Im so blessed. God has been so good to me.
In closing, I was a bummer lamb when mom took me in at nine years old. My head was hanging low when I came to live with her and Cecil. My spirit was broken.
The details and circumstances around how that all came to be after my father died are not important. Just suffice to say that I had a mom that loved me enough to let me go, and another mom with a big enough heart to take me in. Tommy can speak to this as well.
When I say God loaned me an angel, I meant it. He truly did. She loved me. She encouraged and comforted me, she strengthened me, and many others, then released me back into the flock on my own strength, with my head held high.
Mom always made sure I was treated “just like one of the bunch”. And this family did too. That means so much to me. God couldn’t have put me in a better place, with a better mom, with a better family, than this one sitting here today.
Thank you all for loving me. Thank you for treating me as one of the bunch. Thank you for calling me family. Thank you for being my family, I love all of you dearly, God bless you! In Christ Jesus, James.
James Dixon. Jaedixon@aol.com.